Dads And Daddies

Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Morrow 121 - Brian and Judson hookup with Barrett Foa and talk the magic of Meg Stalter; practicing acceptance; finding freedom, love and a new language at Burning Man; expecting less from our parents; texting with Kylie; and being kind to yourself when grieving

Dads and Daddies features frank, unrehearsed conversations between one Gen X Dad of two and one Millennial self-identified ‘Daddy,’ with a focus on their personal stories of sex, love and marriage, plus topics spanning parenthood, Daddyhood, family, friendship, identity, money, addiction & recovery, and so many more that reveal the deeply intimate details of what it means to live life as adult gay men today.

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Episodios

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Brian and Judson hookup with Barrett Foa and talk the magic of Meg Stalter; practicing acceptance; finding freedom, love and a new language at Burning Man; expecting less from our parents; texting with Kylie; and being kind to yourself when grieving

15 sep. 2026

Tue, 8 Sep 2026 07:15:00 +0000

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Brian and Judson have a repeat hookup with top anal health expert in the US, Dr. Evan Goldstein, and take questions on douching, STIs, scarring and depth play, and also talk reluctant parenthood, Martha Stewart’s allyship, and the mindf*ck of turning 50

Tue, 1 Sep 2026 07:15:00 +0000

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Brian and Judson hookup with ‘Kink for Dummies’ co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana and talk making a better world through kink, finding your inner kinkster, marrying your best friend, the variants of jealousy in open relationships and so much more

25 ago. 2026

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Brian and Judson have a fivesome with repeat hookups Jonah Wheeler, Joel Someone, and Daddy Kylex and talk helping each other navigate the gay porn industry, making spontaneous content together, consent for love language, and transparency on the apps

18 ago. 2026

11 ago. 2026

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DR. DADDY IS BACK! Brian and Judson hookup with Dr. Demetre Daskalakis again and talk protecting LGBTQ+ people from syndemics; the present and future of PrEP; the dire need in the U.S, for universal healthcare, and queer self-care as rebellion

Tue, 4 Aug 2026 07:15:00 +0000

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Brian and Judson hookup with ‘Owning Manhattan’ star and Queerity app founder Jordan Hurt and talk the road from gutter to high-rise, being sober on the apps, sharing his rock bottom moment on TV, and confronting friends struggling with addiction

28 jul. 2026

21 jul. 2026

14 jul. 2026

Tue, 7 Jul 2026 07:15:00 +0000

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Brian and Judson hookup with Justin Elizabeth Sayre and talk aging as a queer person without role models, fleeing the US to find safety as a non-binary person, misrepresentation on the apps, and communication in open relationships

30 jun. 2026

23 jun. 2026

16 jun. 2026

Tue, 9 Jun 2026 07:15:00 +0000

Tue, 2 Jun 2026 07:15:00 +0000

26 mayo 2026

19 mayo 2026

12 mayo 2026

Tue, 5 May 2026 07:15:00 +0000

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Brian and Judson celebrate 100 episodes with Cats: The Jellicle Ball’s Sydney James Harcourt and talk sex with straight men, preferring faceless Grindr profiles, his affair with Andy Cohen, recognizing realness as a trauma response, and more

28 abr. 2026

21 abr. 2026

14 abr. 2026

Tue, 7 Apr 2026 07:15:00 +0000

31 mar. 2026

24 mar. 2026

17 mar. 2026

10 mar. 2026

Tue, 3 Mar 2026 08:15:00 +0000

24 feb. 2026

17 feb. 2026

10 feb. 2026

Tue, 3 Feb 2026 08:15:00 +0000

27 ene. 2026

20 ene. 2026

13 ene. 2026

Tue, 6 Jan 2026 08:15:00 +0000

30 dic. 2025

23 dic. 2025

16 dic. 2025

Tue, 9 Dec 2025 08:15:00 +0000

Tue, 2 Dec 2025 08:15:00 +0000

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Brian and Judson hookup with Dr. Demetre Daskalakis and talk his fiery resignation from the CDC, his return to the front lines in NYC, the meaning of his pentagram tattoo, his thoughts on questions from our listeners, and much more

25 nov. 2025

18 nov. 2025

11 nov. 2025

Tue, 4 Nov 2025 08:15:00 +0000

28 oct. 2025

21 oct. 2025

14 oct. 2025

Tue, 7 Oct 2025 11:15:00 +0000

Dads And Daddies

Episodios

Brian and Judson hookup with Barrett Foa and talk the magic of Meg Stalter; practicing acceptance; finding freedom, love and a new language at Burning Man; expecting less from our parents; texting with Kylie; and being kind to yourself when grieving

Brian and Judson hookup with Gay Tired Hopeful’s Andrew Abel and talk commodotizing sex, gay exhaustion, being born polyamorous and insatiable bottoms

Brian and Judson have a repeat hookup with top anal health expert in the US, Dr. Evan Goldstein, and take questions on douching, STIs, scarring and depth play, and also talk reluctant parenthood, Martha Stewart’s allyship, and the mindf*ck of turning 50

Brian and Judson hookup with ‘Kink for Dummies’ co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana and talk making a better world through kink, finding your inner kinkster, marrying your best friend, the variants of jealousy in open relationships and so much more

Brian and Judson have a fivesome with repeat hookups Jonah Wheeler, Joel Someone, and Daddy Kylex and talk helping each other navigate the gay porn industry, making spontaneous content together, consent for love language, and transparency on the apps

Brian and Judson hookup with Eliot Glazer and talk giving voice to disastrous gays, laughing at sex parties, queer sports league trauma and learning Gen Z vocab by dating an Insta hottie

DR. DADDY IS BACK! Brian and Judson hookup with Dr. Demetre Daskalakis again and talk protecting LGBTQ+ people from syndemics; the present and future of PrEP; the dire need in the U.S, for universal healthcare, and queer self-care as rebellion

Brian and Judson hookup with ‘Owning Manhattan’ star and Queerity app founder Jordan Hurt and talk the road from gutter to high-rise, being sober on the apps, sharing his rock bottom moment on TV, and confronting friends struggling with addiction

Brian and Judson hookup with Daddyhunt founder and CEO Carl Sandler and talk treating each other right on and off the apps, what it takes to be a good son, keeping Daddies alive and the importance of gay friendships

Brian and Judson hookup with Finding Fire Island creator Jess Rothschild and talk queer history, lesbian divorce, being a gay woman who prefers the company of men, and whether honesty is always the best policy when dating

Brian and Judson hookup with Bryan Safi and talk people pleasing, finding love on the apps, gay divorce, needing reassurance as an adult, healing family wounds, and both Jason Alexanders

Brian and Judson hookup with Justin Elizabeth Sayre and talk aging as a queer person without role models, fleeing the US to find safety as a non-binary person, misrepresentation on the apps, and communication in open relationships

Brian and Judson hookup with Peppermint and talk trading the Pride march for trans health care, Lady Gaga’s Drag Race demands, dating as a trans woman, bringing Black culture to predominantly white spaces and so much more

Brian and Judson have a repeat hookup with Nasty Pig founder and CEO David Lauterstein and talk queer visibility, aging Daddy bottoms, the power of touch, bringing friends into the marital bed, and more

Brian and Judson hookup with ‘Blue Film’ writer and director Elliot Tuttle and talk adolescent sexuality, slippery morality, what overindexing on queer joy does to taste levels, and Daddying vs fathering

Brian and Judson celebrate the launch of Season Three with a Go Ask Your Dad Extravaganza and talk open relationship rules, self-care routines, sex party connections, unpredictable libidos, and more

Brian and Judson hookup with Kevin Aviance and talk the pressures of being an icon, making Beyoncé c*nty, ballroom history, what it means to be a Black Queen today, and more

Brian and Judson hookup with Zachary Zane and talk Bisexual Audibility, the joys of bottoming, being brave about sex when sober, the value of anger, whether top shortages are a myth, and more

Brian and Judson hookup with Nick Wolny and talk generating wealth as queer people, whether poppers are an essential expense, accepting our social inheritances, preparing emotionally and financially for gay events, and more

Brian and Judson hookup with The Disappointments creator and star Rich Burns and talk regrets after 50, the path from connection to kink, who decides who’s a Daddy, scheduling sex and more

Brian and Judson celebrate 100 episodes with Cats: The Jellicle Ball’s Sydney James Harcourt and talk sex with straight men, preferring faceless Grindr profiles, his affair with Andy Cohen, recognizing realness as a trauma response, and more

Brian and Judson hookup with Claybourne Elder and talk growing up Mormon and gay, wanting to be evil, aging in the public eye, and gay wedding planning

Brian and Judson hookup with John Paul Brammer and talk about giving advice to the international LGBTQ community, choosing between religions, hookup etiquette, managing queer-specific anxieties, and more

Brian and Judson hookup with Bright Light Bright Light and talk career building as an independent artist, befriending your heroes, hypocrisy within the queer community and whether sex is an interesting subject for music

Brian and Judson hookup with Grey Henson and talk the sexual appeal of Bigfoot, the challenges of dating as an actor, Daddy physique vs energy, and moving past the fear of new connections

Brian and Judson hookup with Eric Williams and talk being slut podcasters comparing coasts, making bad money, and sleeping with friends

Brian and Judson hookup with John-Andrew Morrison and talk being husband to Jane, Jinkx, Hannah and John Cameron, careers reclaimed through sobriety, afternoon nookie, and loving yourself enough to be late for your house

Brian and Judson hookup with Mike Fails and Gina Spears and talk queer friendships, surviving trauma, the quest to bottom and messy hookups

Friendly Fire with Brian and Judson, in which they talk hooking up on a family cruise, sex for the sake of the story, the treatment of women by gay men, and how deep the friendship with a friend-with-benefits should be

Brian and Judson hookup with Honey Davenport and talk bridging the drag and leather communities, the importance of Dads, Daddies and Drag Mothers, starting activism young, and navigating the apps as a non-binary person

Brian and Judson hookup with Timothy Westbrook and talk Project Runway secrets, designing fashion from a place without shame, blindfolded hookups, and sex with a disability

Brian and Judson hookup with Jason Veasey and talk Best Medicine, his secret to a successful long-term relationship, reclaiming sexuality after the HIV diagnosis, and advocating for queer Black-on-Black love on TV

Brian and Judson hookup with Ben Zumsteg and talk Disco Fizz, leaving alcohol behind, second chapters and being the Good Boy when you look like a Daddy

Brian and Judson talk Deshaming Sluttiness, Heated Rivalry, Spontaneous Sex and Hooking Up with Celebrities

Brian and Judson hookup with Aidan Wharton and talk the need to revive our connection skills, alternatives to monogamy, overcommunicating in open relationships and building community through the hookup apps

Brian and Judson hookup with Daddy Kylex and talk creating adult content, coming out to family as a porn star, meeting men IRL and kink social etiquette

Brian and Judson hookup with Robert Horn and talk the importance of humor, sexual awakening, conquering Hollywood and aging as a gay man

Brian and Judson hookup with Michael Foote and talk fighting ICE, defending monogamy, gay fame and leatherwear at work

Brian and Judson hookup with Aaron Jackson and talk Messy White Gays, Josh Sharp, throuple challenges and keeping sex funny

Brian and Judson hookup with Jimin Moon, repeat with Will Wikle, and talk chosen family, mentorship in the gay community, discovering polyamory, and loving outside of labels

Friendly Fire with Brian and Judson, in which they talk Thanksgiving recovery, sex ed vocabulary, switching between positions in bed, and communication in an open relationship

Brian and Judson hookup with Dr. Evan Goldstein and talk all about butts–from gaining confidence as a bottom to protecting the prostate to anal botox, to the dos and don’ts of douching

Brian and Judson hookup with Dr. Demetre Daskalakis and talk his fiery resignation from the CDC, his return to the front lines in NYC, the meaning of his pentagram tattoo, his thoughts on questions from our listeners, and much more

Brian and Judson hookup with James Nguyen and AC Gottlieb and talk sex between friends, couples therapy, racism in the queer community and designing for Chappell Roan

Brian and Judson hookup with Jay Jurden and talk sex positivity, the importance of queer stand-up, being proudly bisexual and gay X-Men

Brian and Judson hookup with Mike Albo and talk Hologram Boyfriends, Locktober, money struggles, condom use post-PrEP and the ubiquity of open relationships

Brian and Judson hookup with Brandon Kyle Goodman and talk destroying shame, redefining relationships, polyamory, and restoring kindness in the queer community

Brian and Judson present their third Go Ask Your Dad Extravaganza

Brian and Judson talk Masculinity

Friendly Fire with Brian and Judson, Vol. 3